Humiliation....

As of now the author has been keeping it light and sweet, witty and clever, polite and poised, but damn it, the author is unleashing the wrath. Who was the clever individual to appoint role models, mentors, or life teachers?  And, PLEASE can that person tell me that they got PAID some type of monetary value. And who, by the way, does the picking? I mean I understand that The Divine comes into play now and again in making these choices.  But, can the person whose being picked has some say.  What if the timing is OFF.. What about the self esteem of the pickee?  

Lets take relationships for example. What's with this whole moment of the Younger Guy & Older Woman?  Who said that was okay?  Why, because Ashton and Demi made it look glamorous.  The entire world saw how that ended up.  He came out on top while she was used like a convenient hole for his amusement.  And after he was done with her because she started to get old he cheated on her and left her brokenhearted.  Everyone knows that the guy in this equation has been trained and molded into an ideal man from an established woman.  So of course he wins. The woman loses her respect and self esteem. And that what Mr. Kutcher did, he humiliated a nice person all because he was done using her. And what did this woman get out in exchange - pure humiliation.  

Why!?  Why is it that the woman must suffer the blow?  Humiliated by the very person that she once trusted and open her heart to.  And not only her heart but her mind too.   I mean, lets be honest.  No woman of a certain age would take a young man serious in any situation. If you're not her son, why would she.  They have a lot to learn and experience in life.  And those experiences should be done with other people of the same age.  If the experience these young boys want to experience is sexual than hire an escort to satisfy your needs.  

But, thanks to the most famous relationship known to date (Ashton & Demi) women are caught in a double edge sword.

(Humiliation of one person by another (the humiliator) is often used as a way of asserting power over them, and is a common form of oppression, bullying or abuse)

The woman is either a Trophy or Rite of Passage.  If you're pretty enough.

A rite of passage is a ritual event that marks a person's progress from one status to another. Rites of passage are often ceremonies surrounding events such as other milestones within puberty, coming of age, marriage and death. Initiation ceremonies such as baptism,confirmation and Bar or Bat Mitzvah.

But for the women or girls who are not pretty enough are just used up.  When the guys are done with them they are left humiliated.  These women are not an Angelina Jolie, that men will do anything for. They are just regular females who are used, played with, humiliated and then rejected. 

Humiliated & Rejected 

(sorry ladies but this is your fate if you do not meet the requirements)